Sonie was a dynamo in our women's consciousness raising group. I owe her so much for that. Then there was all the playgrounds in Fulham where Jake and Ollie sucked their dummies together for years while we discussed motherhood. The women's center finally rose from her efforts to support many women. How can I ever forget this time in our lives when we opened doors in ourselves to new worlds? Her sparkling eyes and her intelligence changed so many lives. She will always be with me somehow.